Lately, it’s been hard for me to be positive and grateful. Life has just been so overwhelming. I’m trying to do so much, and it’s starting to wear me out. I work full time, raise two little boys, take care of our house, and try to make time for ME by reading, blogging, and exercising. I feel like I’m accomplishing a lot, but at somewhat of a cost. I decided to remedy my negative attitude a little bit today by thinking of the things I’ve been thankful for lately!
One on one time with Caleb
As always, Mom Guilt is alive and well. Caleb has, for the most part, adjusted really well to having a brother. However, I feel guilty because I have to tell him “no” or “not right now” quite often, since he usually asks for stuff while I’m feeding the baby. A couple of weeks ago after work one evening, I took him to McDonalds for ice cream sundaes, just the two of us. It was nice to give him that special one on one time and I’m thankful I could do that for him.
Time with my aunt
We saw Miss Saigon on Tuesday as part of our theater season passes. It ended up being a doozy of a night. The show got a delayed start by almost an hour, and it was SUCH an intense show. I’m glad that I saw it and I found the story to be moving and beautiful, but it was a heavy hitter and not a favorite. It was hard to follow and the songs weren’t really songs… more like dialogue that was sung. BUT… there was something about the story that will definitely stick with me… tragic and beautiful and the cast was so talented. Anyway, I’m thankful whenever I get to spend time with my aunt, and I’m always thankful when we see a new show. I love musical theater and am thankful to have a theater buddy!
Mom making me lunch
Well this is silly, but I had nothing to bring for lunch on Tuesday so I texted my mom to see if she had anything. She made me a brown bag lunch that I picked up when I dropped off the kids in the morning. I got a chicken sandwich and a pudding cup. Always grateful for my mama and all the little (and big) things she does for us! (And my dad!)
Family dinner at our favorite restaurant
Jerry and I took the kids out last weekend to one of our favorite restaurants, Papa Joe’s. It was delicious, as always, and the kids behaved pretty well. There was an old couple seated near us who talked to us throughout dinner and complimented the kids. On their way out, the man stopped at our table and shook Jerry’s hand. He said it was so wonderful that we take our kids out and how it’s worth the sacrifices you make to raise children. He said they were the best days of his life. I was thankful for his sweet words, time spent with my family, a delicious meal, and a gift card we got from our Grandma for Christmas to help pay for a good chunk of the bill!
Getting through more books on the treadmill
I’m thankful to be working out and active again. I’m so thankful we have our own treadmill now, too. I’m especially thankful for all the extra reading time it’s giving me. HA! I read my NetGalley books from my Kindle Fire while I’m on the treadmill and usually get through about two extra books a month that way now. Yessss.
A good night's sleep
I am always, always tired. Some of it has to do with being a mom, and some of it has to do with the fact that I’m a terrible sleeper, and a very light sleeper too. On Sunday night, I had the best night’s sleep I’ve had in awhile! The boys didn’t wake up until 7:15 which is unheard of lately! Usually at least one of them is up by 6. Also, Dakota didn’t wake me up in the middle of the night for water like he’s been doing. Phew. It was like fate that all of these things aligned and I could finally sleep for once.
An easy bedtime transition for Holden
We finally transferred him to the crib from the bassinet and it was SO EASY. He was already sleeping in his nursery, but we had him in the bassinet. We had no trouble with the transition, and he didn’t wake up extra or anything once he went into the crib. So thankful that my little guy is mostly easygoing.
Great healthcare
You know one of the things that has been stressing me out lately? APPOINTMENTS! So many doctor’s appointments over the last few weeks and continuing on this month. I just had my teeth cleaning two weeks ago, then went in for a UTI last week. Yesterday, I had my annual with the OB. Next week, I go to the eye doctor, take Caleb to the dentist, and take Holden for his six month check up. Jerry has appointments next week too. In April, I’m getting a filling. When will it end?! However, I know I should be grateful that we have really good insurance and that most of our appointments are either free or $20. I am also grateful for doctors that I like and am comfortable with. How’s that for turning a bad attitude around and finding the silver lining?
Those are the things that are making me feel a little more grateful right now. I’m also grateful that I don’t have any plans this weekend and can finally slow down and unwind (as much as my little guys will let me, anyway).
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